Self,
So on Wednesday night I went to dinner with an aquaintance, VK. After dinner I had a phone conversation with a friend, MS, as I drove home. Our conversation covered a variaty of topics because it had been a while since we had chatted.
Of course one of those topics was dating and more specificaly, my love life. During the conversation about my love life, MS asked if I was willing to have my heart broken. I froze. I didn't know how to answer that. I mean who wants to have their heart broken, right? So after thinking that through, I of course said no. MS then said "then you aren't really ready for a relationship."
MS continued saying that experience a heartbreak is probably the most agonizing experience of life, and if a person isn't prepared for the possibility of it occuring then he/she is quite ready for a relationship.
It makes so much sense to me. I probably have said almost as much to others which is what makes love/dating a gamble...as I encouraged them to take the risk. So now I have to get myself to do the same.....eventually.
Sincerely,
Pharaoh
2 comments:
MS is exactly right! As agonizing as it sounds it makes sense because everything isn't roses on this side of the fence. Very insightful.
Jamar,
I'm glad you you agree with MS, and I hope it helps you with your journey. Thanks for sharing! So are you ready to have your heart broken??
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