Self,
So as recently I've been hearing from some guys from an online profile I have. Most of the conversations have been online...some have progressed to more personal communications.
I've been chatting with this one kat lol for maybe a week...if that. He asked me to spend a my weekend as a volunteer in some capacity at the Long Beach Grand Prix, with the incentive that I would get to spend time with him. (although we haven't even met yet.) Not a bad I idea but I wasn't about to tie-up my whole weekend on someone I hardly know on short notice. However he explained that the event isn't until mid April and I told him I'll think about it.
Today though he sent me a message about having some dream about me where the cops came to our house for some domestic dispute where he went to jail and I ended up in the hospital (he don't know that he would be dead and I'll be in jail, but anyway). And when I recovered I realized how much I just loveded him and we made wild hot angry make up sex. And then he wanted to know how to make it a reality. Ok I'll give him a few points for some refreshing originality, so I told him it can't ever be a reality if he doesn't start by asking me out.
SO he asked me to meet him with some of his boys at a club and that it going to be a hetero club because he don't roll like that. and once we get a bit acquainted we can leave to go somewhere else.
OKAY, no I'm not a fan of meeting in a club (gay or straight) because it is usually load as fuck. How are you suppose to "get acquainted" in a place where you can't hear yourself think? Then you going to add into the mix that your boyz don't know that you are into dating men, so you aren't going to actually speak about yourself freely....this is your recipe for getting to know each other? REALLY?
I'll entertain the idea since it is suppose to be more of a professional networking event....so even if he ain't intriguing or engaging, maybe I can make some contact for my business and it wont be a waste.
Sincerely,
Pharoah
1 comment:
Yes, take your ass to the club and network and meet the man. It may or may not work out but despite the sketchy approaches, we have to acknowledge our brothers for at least making an effort to step off the wall and shout.
Now I must admit, the bit of heteropretense smacks of potential homophobia or at least suggests that he may have a few body parts still in the closet. Not sexy at all. lol
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